Is pain or humiliation (spankings for example) a part of your submission? What is your relationship to it? Do you embrace it as a part of your submission, tolerate it as necessary or have some other type of relationship with it?
Yes they are. I don't love the idea of either, but spankings intrigue and excite me. More painful and more humiliating things make me more nervous, but I'm not 100% closed to those.